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    Friday, 24 March 2017

    5 Things To Always Keep Secret About Your Relationship




    ANYTHING S*X-RELATED

    Talking about anything relating to s*x should be considered a big no-no. Examples of such topics include: how often you do (or don’t) have s*x, any s*xual fantasies, problems in the bedroom, and so forth.

    Engaging in conversation with someone else about your s*xual experiences robs the relationship of its intimacy. No matter how big or small such details may be, conversing with anyone else
    about s*x-related topics besides your partner is an act of deception.

    In the event that s*xual problems are creating distance, or otherwise causing friction in the relationship, therapeutic outlets exist that can help to resolve such issues. Furthermore, experts such as relationship therapists and counselors are bound by confidentiality agreements to keep all related matters private.

    ANY PERCEIVED FLAWS

    When a man is made to feel less like a man, or when a woman is made to feel less like a woman, they’re deeply hurt – and relationship problems can escalate quickly. None of us are perfect, and being part of a relationship does nothing to change this universal fact. Regardless of how you may feel, these flaws are best kept under wraps.

    FIGHTS OR HEATED ARGUMENTS

    Aside from altercations that involve physical or emotional abuse, relationship “fights” shouldn’t be discussed with others. Your close friend may indeed help “solve” the issue to a certain extent, but therein lies the problem – it takes your partner out of the equation. Resolving continuing altercations requires communication with the appropriate parties; Namely, you, your partner, and (possibly) a counselor or therapist.

    MONEY TROUBLES

    Oh, yes, no “relationship secrets” article would be complete without mentioning money issues. Or – in this case – not mentioning money issues. First, it’s important to understand that financial troubles within a relationship are very common. According to a 2015 survey by SunTrust Bank, “Some 35 percent of all respondents experiencing relationship stress said money was the primary cause of friction…Among respondents with relationship stress aged 44 to 54, 44 percent said money was the primary cause.”

    In other words, you are not alone in your money troubles. As much stress that money-related issues may induce, they’re solvable given the necessary knowledge. If a prompt resolution is essential, seek the advice of a financial adviser. Of course, refrain from droning on about problems that are nobody else’s business. They probably won’t help, anyways.

    ANYTHING SAID IN CONFIDENCE

    At the risk of sounding cliché, trust is the backbone of any relationship. Most of what happens in a relationship has some type of “cure,” but betraying your partner’s trust is perhaps the most egregious of offenses – and is, unsurprisingly, difficult to rebound from.

    This is exactly why his or her innermost thoughts and feelings –those that he or she has entrusted you and only you with – are not to ever (ever) be revealed.



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